Never and Always...
- Jul 15
- 1 min read
Updated: Jul 17
Conflicting information from social media “influencers”, gung ho co-workers, well-meaning family members can be confusing and make us feel like we don’t know what to do. In my work I see people who have some sort of challenge. Post-baby, peri-menopause, menopause, trauma, burnout, injury, incontinence, prolapse, back pain, recovery from surgery… Unfortunately, no one feels awesome and books an appointment!
When you see me for help I never say never and I never say always.
But why?
Because you are an individual, one of kind human that deserves more consideration than a black and white answer.
I never say never, because you set your own goals, know your own body and live your life. That may mean that I say: “Not yet” “Go slow” “Notice how you feel” or “Try to be patient.”
For example, you may say- “I read that all peri-menopausal women should lift heavy.” I would say; “Is that a goal you have? Let’s work toward it from where you are now. There are lots of way to build bone and muscle.”
I never say always because your challenges are connected to each other in a unique way. Your body, life, brain, self, circumstances. For example I usually say “Exhale with effort.” But sometimes we need to breathe during an extended effort and how do we do that well?
I see lots of common issues- but there’s not one thing that I always suggest. I often start with tension and breathing- but never always.
I’d love to see you in my clinic. Booking in September 2025.
